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Insecurity and Self-Esteem – How RTT Can Help You Find Your True Self

Insecurity is a feeling that can subtly weave itself into our lives, often without us even noticing. It can stem from past experiences, deeply ingrained beliefs, or from not knowing our true worth. Insecurity affects our self-esteem, holding us back from living fully – we fear failure, judgment, or we simply don’t believe we deserve better.

RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) is a powerful tool that helps you unravel these beliefs. Insecurities don’t exist to punish you – they are there to show you where healing is still needed. Emotions and experiences stored deep within the subconscious can cause us to see ourselves as less than we truly are. RTT allows us to get to the root causes, release old beliefs, and rebuild a new, empowered sense of self-esteem.

Self-esteem doesn’t come from striving for perfection, but from embracing who you are. When your subconscious is freed from old patterns, you find yourself more whole and courageous. You gain the ability to believe in your potential and live a life that feels authentic to you – without the chains of past insecurities.

Imagine stepping into the world without constantly doubting yourself. What if you could change the way you see yourself and your life? RTT gives you that opportunity – deep, lasting transformation.

Are you ready to let go of insecurity and step into your true power?

Start by booking a free consultation call:

Contact – Kivilahti Healing (katjakivilahti.fi)

Narcissistic Relationships – Emotional Manipulation and Losing Yourself: How Can RTT Help?

A narcissistic relationship is one of the most emotionally draining experiences a person can go through. In such a relationship, you gradually lose touch with yourself. Constant manipulation, control, and emotional invalidation by your partner make you believe that your feelings and needs don’t matter. This creates a vicious cycle where your personal power diminishes, and you begin living according to someone else’s expectations. It eats away at your self-esteem and often leads to depression, anxiety, and burnout. Over time, you may lose your sense of self-worth, personal boundaries, and even your identity. Living alongside a narcissist is an ongoing emotional tightrope, where their needs always outweigh yours. To survive, you silence your own feelings and desires, just to make it through another day.

 

The Damaging Effects of a Narcissistic Relationship

One of the biggest challenges in a narcissistic relationship is that the issue often remains invisible to others, and you may even start to believe that everything happening in the relationship is your fault. Narcissists are skilled at manipulating, creating uncertainty, and wielding power in ways that make you doubt your own worth. These dynamics often result in:

  • Collapse of Self-Esteem – Your thoughts and emotions seem insignificant, and you start questioning your worth and abilities.
  • Emotional Exhaustion – You’re constantly on edge, never sure when the next conflict or accusation will occur, leading to deep emotional fatigue.
  • Feeling Disconnected – You lose touch with yourself as your needs are continuously dismissed, making you feel lost and detached from your own life.
  • Cycle of Fear and Anxiety – Narcissists use fear and guilt as tools of control, creating a constant atmosphere of anxiety and apprehension.
  • Erosion of Boundaries – A narcissist frequently violates your personal boundaries, making you feel as though you have no right to assert them.

The impact of these issues can be long-lasting and difficult to navigate alone. Survivors of narcissistic relationships often experience depression, anxiety, and even PTSD. But healing is possible.

 

How RTT Helps in Recovery

Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) offers a unique approach to quickly addressing the emotional wounds left by a narcissistic relationship. In such relationships, you are led to believe that you’re not good enough, that your feelings and needs don’t matter. RTT works by dismantling these harmful beliefs and replacing them with healthier, more empowering ways of thinking about yourself.

RTT’s strength lies in its ability to address subconscious beliefs formed through long-term manipulation. In therapy, it’s possible to uncover and change deep-seated thought patterns that have taken hold over time:

  • Restoring Self-Esteem – RTT helps identify and change the subconscious beliefs that have been implanted by the narcissist. This allows you to reclaim your sense of self-worth and potential.
  • Rebuilding Boundaries – After experiencing boundary violations, it can be challenging to reassert them. RTT guides you in reinforcing your personal boundaries and reclaiming your space.
  • Journey Back to Your Own Power – RTT helps you reconnect with yourself. By learning to listen to your own inner voice and recognizing your needs, you start to feel like yourself again.
  • Healing from Trauma – RTT provides tools to process the emotional trauma left by the relationship, whether that’s dealing with feelings of guilt, shame, or fear.

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship is Possible

Recovering from a narcissistic relationship is neither a simple nor an easy process, but it is absolutely achievable. The first step is recognizing the effects the relationship has had on you, and the next is seeking help to work through them. RTT is an effective tool that opens the door to a healthier, brighter future.

By freeing yourself from old, harmful beliefs, you can begin a new, more fulfilling chapter in life. You deserve it.

Are you ready to take the first step toward healing and reclaiming your personal power? I am here to help you find your way back to yourself.

Start by booking a free consultation call:

Contact – Kivilahti Healing (katjakivilahti.fi)

Finding the Lost Self: The Journey Back to Yourself

When you’re in the midst of depression, burnout, or trapped in a narcissistic relationship, it can feel like you’ve completely lost touch with who you are. What once was a clear sense of self – knowing what you want, where you’re headed – now seems like a distant memory. It’s as if your entire energy is consumed by the need to just survive. Your needs, dreams, and desires fall to the background, and you find yourself becoming a mere shadow of who you once were.

In a narcissistic relationship, your needs are constantly pushed aside to cater to someone else’s. Over time, you start believing that you don’t have the right to feel what you feel, or to set boundaries. Depression and burnout then strip away what little strength remains, leaving you feeling like a stranger in your own life.

But here’s the truth: this is not a permanent state. It is possible to recover and reconnect with yourself.

 

How can you begin to rediscover yourself?

This is a good place to start:  increasing your awareness  – noticing the moments when you give up your power and asking yourself why. When you start recognizing these patterns, you can begin the journey back to yourself.

One good exercice for this is to take a moment to reflect on the past week through these questions:

  1. When this week did I not say NO, even though I wanted to?
  2. What was the impact on me when I didn’t say NO?
  3. What belief was behind my decision to not say NO?
  4. When and where did I learn this belief?
  5. Who would I be without this belief?
  6. Where in my life am I not saying YES, even though I want to?

These questions can help you start reconnecting with your inner strength and recognizing the moments where you give more than you should.

RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) can be a powerful tool in this process. Through RTT, we don’t just address the symptoms of your pain, but work to heal the root causes that lie deep in your subconscious. It helps you break free from the limiting beliefs and emotional blocks that have kept you stuck. This kind of work allows for deep and lasting transformation, enabling you to regain control, build healthier boundaries, and reclaim your sense of self.

The path to reconnecting with yourself isn’t always easy, but it’s possible. And you don’t have to walk it alone. If you feel like you need support on this journey, I am here to help you rediscover the parts of you that are valuable and worthy of love. Together, we can remove the blocks that stand in your way and open doors to a better future.

Are you ready to take the first step?

Toward a Better Life: Transform Your Life with Rapid Transformational Therapy

Are you ready to take a step towards real change? With Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), you can uncover a new way of being, and I am here to walk alongside you on this powerful journey of self-awareness and healing. As an RTT therapist, my passion is to help you tap into your full potential and make the shifts that lead to lasting, positive change.

 

What is Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT)?

RTT, developed by Marisa Peer, blends hypnotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and psychotherapy. It’s a powerful tool that allows us to go deep into the root causes of your challenges and create meaningful change. RTT helps rewrite the beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors that may have been blocking you from living your best life.

 

The Process of Transformation

Our RTT sessions are a collaboration, where together we uncover the deeper reasons behind what’s holding you back. Whether you are struggling with limiting beliefs, stress, anxiety, burn-out, depression or a lack of confidence, RTT is designed to offer rapid, lasting results. In our sessions, we’ll use relaxation and hypnosis to access your subconscious mind, reframe old beliefs, and replace them with empowering, supportive ones.

 

Empowerment and Growth

For me, this work is about more than just healing—it’s about empowering you to navigate life with confidence, self-awareness, and purpose. RTT isn’t just a quick fix; it gives you deeper insights into yourself, helping you make choices that align with your true desires. Each healing journey is unique, and I am committed to providing a safe, compassionate space where you can explore, heal, and grow at your own pace.

 

The Benefits of RTT

My clients often share how RTT has helped them for example:

  • Gain clarity and deepen self-awareness by understanding the root causes of their challenges.
  • Heal emotionally by addressing past traumas and negative beliefs that have been weighing them down.
  • Replace doubt with self-assurance, enabling them to move forward with renewed confidence.
  • Develop positive habits and behaviors that align with their goals, creating real and lasting change.
  • Overcoming narcissistic relationships and freeing themselves from the emotional burden they cause, so they can build healthier and more balanced relationships.
  • Finding relief and support for depression, anxiety, and burnout, and discovering new, effective ways to cope with daily challenges.
  • Providing relief from physical ailments, such as migraines and pain conditions.

 

Begin Your Transformation Journey

Are you ready to experience the transformative power of RTT? Together, we’ll explore the path of healing, growth, and empowerment. Let’s work together to discover your true potential, release what no longer serves you, and create a life filled with joy, purpose, and fulfillment.

Contact me to schedule a free consultation. It’s the first step towards unlocking the power within you. Let’s embark on this journey together through Rapid Transformational Therapy.

Nothing in our lives will change…until WE change